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Title: The mind games are too much Post by: Samuel S. on April 04, 2014, 09:21:51 PM When it rains, it pours. The D17 of my BPDw has experienced the death of her sister, the divorce of her biological parents, arguing between me and my BPDw some 10 years ago about her warped perceptions about my side of the family, is getting stressed out about school, and whatever else. The D17 has thus been very moody and hardly says a word to me unless I ask her or compliment her.
When my BPDw returned from her studies after 3 days away this week, the D17 started crying and revealing all of the above. She also said that she doesn't like it when her biological father or I give her a side hug, either, when we are proud of her. When my BPDw told me all of this, she said that I should not take her D17 personally. All of this along with my BPDw distancing herself from me has finally gotten the better of me. The only way I made it through the day is by being outside the house for different errands, etc. It is no wonder that when I give to the both of them all of my heart and all of my soul and this happens, that I feel I have been slapped silly. To say the least, the mind games are too much, and i just want to distance myself from the both of them! Tomorrow, they are going to the university that the D17 will probably attend, and I am going out of town to visit with some friends, just to get some sanity. |