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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Detaching and Learning after a Failed Relationship => Topic started by: Surnia on April 12, 2014, 02:30:14 AM



Title: Little things in daily life - as a gift and an antidote against frustration.
Post by: Surnia on April 12, 2014, 02:30:14 AM
This is not a thread about the big struggles. Its more about frustration, at work, with family or friends, with the bus not coming or the bicycle without air in the wheels. 

I had yesterday such a day partly. At the end I had to say to myself: I cannot change my students or my coworkers. I cannot resolve this. Let it like this, Surnia.

I went to bed and had a long night with very deep sleep. Today I went to the local market, which is full of newly grown vegetables, here winter is over. Lots of little plants, the first flowers and fruits. So beautiful. And I felt like back to life.  :)

What are your moments of being back in life, being grateful about little things?


Title: Re: Little things in daily life - as a gift and an antidote against frustration.
Post by: Waifed on April 12, 2014, 09:28:44 AM
Yesterday I found myself singing with passion to an upbeat song on the radio.  Other drivers probably thought I was crazy but it's been so long since I've done that. It felt so liberating.


Title: Re: Little things in daily life - as a gift and an antidote against frustration.
Post by: corraline on April 12, 2014, 12:27:42 PM
I planted some nasturtiums.  The weather is beautiful here . Ive had some nice exchanges with my neighbours. The view of the ocean from my deck is amazing.

I am feeling more peace within myself and more connected to life. I am experiencing a happier and healthier NOW.

Thanks for your post Surnia.


Title: Re: Little things in daily life - as a gift and an antidote against frustration.
Post by: arn131arn on April 12, 2014, 09:42:44 PM
Yesterday I found myself singing with passion to an upbeat song on the radio.  Other drivers probably thought I was crazy but it's been so long since I've done that. It felt so liberating.

Lol, Waifed... . been doing that too lately!


Title: Re: Little things in daily life - as a gift and an antidote against frustration.
Post by: AwakenedOne on April 13, 2014, 02:21:13 AM
Mine is music related also. I play guitar. I have enjoyed learning some new songs recently. I spent a lot of hours practicing them. In the last month about 10 songs. Avett Brothers & Dylan.

Peace,

AO


Title: Re: Little things in daily life - as a gift and an antidote against frustration.
Post by: heartandwhole on April 13, 2014, 07:56:41 AM
Great post, Surnia.  :)I can relate to your day of many things going wrong!

Yet, I've been having wonderful moments of gratitude lately.  Riding the bus last night, I looked around at my city, and felt very lucky to live here.

Had some delicious Italian pizza and great conversation with a friend at dinner.  It felt so good to connect and feel that bond with each other.

Listened to some inspirational TED talks today and besides admiring the speakers' journeys, I felt waves of compassion and self-acceptance, too.

It feels good to be alive. 




Title: Re: Little things in daily life - as a gift and an antidote against frustration.
Post by: Surnia on April 13, 2014, 11:44:09 AM
Wow, corraline, a view to the ocean. Sounds great!

And gardening is something great for me too.

TED talks are great too, thank you for the reminder, HAW



Title: Re: Little things in daily life - as a gift and an antidote against frustration.
Post by: corraline on April 13, 2014, 11:49:59 AM
Re: gardening

My mom sent me this (not sure if they were her own words or not) But i really liked it.

Spring is about a new start. Part of the cycle of life. Plant flowers in the beliefs that good things are coming. Feel the richness of the earth and nurture the promise


Title: Re: Little things in daily life - as a gift and an antidote against frustration.
Post by: Surnia on April 13, 2014, 10:36:17 PM
This is very nice.  :)