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Title: Her ex calls me again. Post by: Split black on April 12, 2014, 11:15:18 AM The guy that I caught cheating with my exBPDgf has called me for the 2nd time in a month or so. Hes telling me hes doing ok and has not seen my ex. Shes banished him as well and went back to boyfriend number 1 or 4 years. The one I got her away from so she could move into an apt. Nothing but slanderous horror stories... . well... . they have always been in touch and seeing each other except when he gets pissed and then he will cut her out for a few weeks but she has him where she wants him. ( Mostly unknown to me) She was able to keep him and do me for a year and then this new guy for a month... . and god knows how many strays... . and other ex ___s that she has hidden on her FB and cell.
So he texts me... . I tell him NO, I haven't seen her. He seems relieved. I tell him shes with this other guy. He tells me he hasn't seen her for 60 days and she ignores his constant attempts at contact. I tell him again she has an illness and he MUST educate himself about BPD. He thanks me again. Here I am helping the a guy that banged my ex. Because I feel badly for him. Hes a decent normal guy who fell under her spell and has no clue. This is just wrong. On a good note, Im getting tighter with my ex ex who dumped me a year and a half ago for a boyfriend she never told me about... . good note... . sheeeesh. |