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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Detaching and Learning after a Failed Relationship => Topic started by: Take2 on April 16, 2014, 07:04:44 AM



Title: Full moons
Post by: Take2 on April 16, 2014, 07:04:44 AM
Okay, I realize this is going to sound like magical thinking... . but last night was a full moon with a lunar eclipse... .   days ago I had been thinking, uh oh, the full moon is Tuesday, I wonder what the ex will meltdown with that day... . and don't you know - he was off the charts out of his mind with rage and anger by yesterday evening... .    all without any provocation from me... . a simple good morning from me started him off.  Hours later without further contact from me at all, he came charging back at me spewing hatred, threats and accusations.  Keep in mind the night before he said he was here for us and loved me... .     of course I realize we have a very long history and he has many triggers at work that he attributes to me.  Right or wrong (they are wrong) - they still trigger him either way.   I'm only pointing out the full moon because the intensity of his rage yesterday was something I haven't seen in about 6 months or so... .    and I have seen plenty of anger from him during that timeframe of course... .    I realize there is absolutely no scientific evidence to this at all and that I am trying to make sense of something that simply can't be easily explained... .    I guess it just helps to try and point to some reason for scary behavior... .    


Title: Re: Full moons
Post by: Livestrong97 on April 16, 2014, 07:15:52 AM
My BPDh had a meltdown last night.  We were overdue for one though.