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Title: Moved a lot? Post by: suffering_parent on April 17, 2014, 10:47:40 AM Any one else forced to move around a lot with their BPD partner?
My exwife moved like 40+ times with her dysfunctional parents. Our first 5 years of marriage she was antsy, but couldn't move due to owning a house. After we sold that house it was on. Bought another house, but she made me buy a second just to move out of that town. After we started renting we would move at least every 6 months. For whatever reason she would have to move. We were doing this with four kids for about 4 years. Of course she didn't help at all with any of the moves. I had to clean up the rentals and move everything. I had enough and bought another house and said I am not moving again. Within 6 months she was gone and divorced. It is completely insane and was such an unstable environment for the kids. Having them changing schools all the time was a nightmare. It is going to take a lot to ever convince me to move again! I am still having nightmares. |