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Title: Sporting events - Need advice. Post by: Deep Impact on April 20, 2014, 10:32:22 PM I just have a question in regards to sporting events.
I play football, I am going to start bringing my son to my games every second weekend. But... I know as soon as I start taking him, that his BPD Mum will start coming to the footy that other weekend. She'll ruin my life again by telling everyone how bad of a person I am, etc. Is there any way I can keep her away from things like sporting events? If the club agreed to ban her, would any issues arise? Should I talk to my lawyer or a psych about this? Title: Re: Sporting events - Need advice. Post by: Turkish on April 21, 2014, 02:40:57 PM I just have a question in regards to sporting events. I play football, I am going to start bringing my son to my games every second weekend. But... I know as soon as I start taking him, that his BPD Mum will start coming to the footy that other weekend. She'll ruin my life again by telling everyone how bad of a person I am, etc. Is there any way I can keep her away from things like sporting events? If the club agreed to ban her, would any issues arise? Should I talk to my lawyer or a psych about this? Hi DI, I think it's a good idea to run this by the professionals, to get an idea of what healthy boundaries you may be able to put into place without causing too much drama (famous last words... . ). By "that other weekend" do you mean weekends when you are not there? Title: Re: Sporting events - Need advice. Post by: Deep Impact on April 22, 2014, 01:03:45 PM I just have a question in regards to sporting events. I play football, I am going to start bringing my son to my games every second weekend. But... I know as soon as I start taking him, that his BPD Mum will start coming to the footy that other weekend. She'll ruin my life again by telling everyone how bad of a person I am, etc. Is there any way I can keep her away from things like sporting events? If the club agreed to ban her, would any issues arise? Should I talk to my lawyer or a psych about this? Hi DI, I think it's a good idea to run this by the professionals, to get an idea of what healthy boundaries you may be able to put into place without causing too much drama (famous last words... . ). By "that other weekend" do you mean weekends when you are not there? Yeah, I mean every second weekend. Even though Hitler has never gone to a football match, she'd be there with bells on if I played. But, I shall run it past my psych, see what he says, he might tell me it's a pipe dream. |