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I have come to the conclusion , just like my ex use to QUOTE everything with these stupid things :) that it seems like alot of the ex's seem to do... You know... the Life Quotes :) this cracked me up :)I use to be able to tell her mode by these things...

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Yeh what is it with BPD and posting quotes?

My ex posts quotes constantly? Does anyone know the psychology behind this?

My ex is addicted to FB. all his "friends" are people he has never met on here... . and he has a façade on there.

He's constantly posting... and sending subliminal stuff through posts about anything and everything.

That's his life. Its easy, simple, lacks intimacy, gives attention.

Great!

I thought I was the only one that his BPD ex did this. I honestly think they use it to validate whatever wrongs or whatever they want to justify in theyre head. I also think they use it as a weapon knowing that you will be looking at it and throwing a cheap shot here and there. Cheap shot for what I dont know they do you dirty enough as if you need anymore cheap shots on top of the ultimate cheap shot they have delivered. No matter what emotion you are feeling or whatever you want to justify I swear there is one of those things for it. The one that made my eyes pop out my socket was the one that said "Every Girl deserves a loyal Man and every Man deserves a Loyal girl". My eyes popped couldnt have bulged out more like really your Loyal? On what planet lol?

Since I broke up with her and she got a replacement, she has been posting quotes and about 'love' and 'best friends' CONSTANTLY.

She never did this once in the 14 months we were together.

I sneaked a peek at my ex BPD page last night. Had to reactivated my account to do this. Wish I hadn't looked. He's never been happier in his life. Loves his life. " freeing his hands of yesterday's junk" it has set me back to think I'm yesterday's junk. I feel sick and hurt again today after feeling powerful and in control yesterday. I deactivated again straight away. They have no incling of how much those messages hurt us grieving exes. It's all just a sick game.

Best Facebook quote of all time: "May your life someday be as awesome as you pretend it is on Facebook."

lol! Exactly! let's all agree not to buy into their fb bs any longer.

I mean seriously? think about it... .

They are so miserable they are trying to covertly reach through fb

with subliminal messages... .

They are not over us just as much as we are not over them.

Except our longing is love... theirs is hate.  What a sad life.

To be filled with hate... we are filled with love... and that is why

they cannot stand us. It's a reflection of who they want to be...

but can't be.

The more I think about it... I feel that is why they get so

angry when we want to help them... be there for them

My ex posted on fb after I walked away (another covert message)

"if you had a crush on me... . tell me why have you lowered your standards so much?"

It kills them that we continue being good to them... . b/c we are not acting out the cycle

of abuse they once experienced... the one they are projecting onto us!

It angers them we love them... . b/c deep down they don't love themselves

and it makes them feel guilty, because they can't reciprocate any of it!

That's why its better to live in denial and just replace. They keep trying to prove

to themselves otherwise... over and over.

The pain is too great for them. Even greater than ours.

We are facing it. We are stronger. They are the weak.

Not the other way around. It's easy to hate...

it's much more difficult to love.