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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Detaching and Learning after a Failed Relationship => Topic started by: refusetosuccumb on May 04, 2014, 07:31:02 PM



Title: Songs that heal you? Give you the determination to keep going?
Post by: refusetosuccumb on May 04, 2014, 07:31:02 PM
I have a few that give me the courage to keep moving post r/s.

Inner Ninja by Classified.

Just give me a Reason by Pink. "We're not broken, just bent, and we can learn to love again"

What Doesnt Kill you makes you Stronger by Kelly Clarkson ":)oesnt mean that I lonely 'cause Im alone"

I will Survive by Gloria Gaynor

Whenever these are played I feel a renewed sense of"I can DO this"

What are some songs that speak to you?


Title: Re: Songs that heal you? Give you the determination to keep going?
Post by: bunnyrabit on May 04, 2014, 08:42:07 PM
The Supremes - You keep me hanging on

Not only is it a timeless, epic pop song but the lyrics are so very applicable to a lot of peoples situations on here.

Heck I'll even give you a youtube link:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t3bjMtqpGBw (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t3bjMtqpGBw)


Title: Re: Songs that heal you? Give you the determination to keep going?
Post by: mrgasket on May 04, 2014, 08:50:02 PM
Yes! MUSIC!

Collective Soul – Precious Declaration

10Years-So Long,Goodbye

Taproot-The Calling

Trapt- Black Rose (this one is softer)

Earshot-Wait ( love the breakdown "I, I'm not waiting here this time"

Earshot-Someone

Cold- Suffocate ( reminds me of push/pull)

A Perfect Circle- 3 Libras (this is probably my #1)

A Perfect Circle- Sleeping Beauty

Theory of a Deadman- Any Other Way ( best suited for the anger stage I feel)

10Years-Just Can't Win

Evans Blue-My Damsel: A Confession To An Adversary ( this one is my #2)

Ok I am going to stop now... . I LIKE music :)






                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                           


Title: Re: Songs that heal you? Give you the determination to keep going?
Post by: mywifecrazy on May 04, 2014, 08:53:48 PM
Praise You in this Storm-Casting Crowns

  You are who you are no matter where I am. Every tear I've cried you held in your hand. And though my heart is torn I will praise you in this storm.


Title: Re: Songs that heal you? Give you the determination to keep going?
Post by: neverloveagain on May 05, 2014, 02:14:32 AM
Staind outside

staind its been a while

a perfect circle the outsider

Most of nine inch nails early stuff

and if your thinking of recycling again henry rollins liar


Title: Re: Songs that heal you? Give you the determination to keep going?
Post by: AwakenedOne on May 05, 2014, 02:28:42 AM
Staind outside

staind its been a while

a perfect circle the outsider

Most of nine inch nails early stuff

and if your thinking of recycling again henry rollins liar

Wow... . you are so on the money accurate with Henry Rollins "Liar" as a recycling defense. I'm gonna watch that video now and try not to think of my liar ex. Cool video.

Peace,

AO


Title: Re: Songs that heal you? Give you the determination to keep going?
Post by: RecycledNoMore on May 05, 2014, 03:21:03 AM
The Bohicas- XXX and swarm

( caution may trigger,puts fire in the ol belly though:)

Dangermouse,Daniel Luppi feat Jack White-

2 against one...

" I get the feeling that its 2 against 1

Im already fighting me,so whats another 1"

" the mirror is a trigger and your mouths a gun,lucky for me im not the only one"

Billy Joel- second wind

Works everytime... .

:)


Title: Re: Songs that heal you? Give you the determination to keep going?
Post by: neverloveagain on May 05, 2014, 05:17:18 AM
Hey ao yea the liar vid is good it reminds me not to put the rose tinted glasses on when i think about my exBPDgf and the truth behind her ways with me. Hope it helps some people here too.



Title: Re: Songs that heal you? Give you the determination to keep going?
Post by: RecycledNoMore on May 05, 2014, 06:58:09 AM
@mrgasket 3 libras, thats ones on my list of " instant heart shredders" list,heartbreakingly beautifullly sad.

Cold war kids- miracle mile

Dancin in the livin room like a maniac:)

Nuff said


Title: Re: Songs that heal you? Give you the determination to keep going?
Post by: going places on May 05, 2014, 07:15:37 AM
Katy Perry / Part of Me

Limp Bizcut / Break Stuff

Capital Cities / Safe and Sound

Timbaland / Apologize

Bryan Adams / Love a Woman

I don't have a 'crybaby' play list; you know, the play list that every song makes you cry.

I have a play list that reminds me of when I was young and free, and a 'dancin queen'.

I have a play list that helps me get out that aggression (Disturbed, Korn/Skrillex, Metallica)

I have a play list that makes me smile 'that' smile (Marvin Gaye/George Michael/Toni Braxton)




Title: Re: Songs that heal you? Give you the determination to keep going?
Post by: crushed_to_pieces on May 05, 2014, 09:19:59 AM
"Best Thing I Never Had" - Beyonce! I think I've listened to that song about 100 times over the past couple weeks!

"Problem" - Ariana Grande

"Wide Awake" Katy Perry

"Blow Me (One Last Kiss)" - Pink

"Over You" - Daughtry

"We Are Never Ever Getting Back Together" - Taylor Swift

"Bye Bye Bye" - NSYNC

I know some of these are really bubblegum pop, BUT the lyrics are so perfect!



Title: Re: Songs that heal you? Give you the determination to keep going?
Post by: AwakenedOne on May 05, 2014, 08:11:31 PM
Hey ao yea the liar vid is good it reminds me not to put the rose tinted glasses on when i think about my exBPDgf and the truth behind her ways with me. Hope it helps some people here too.

The 3:40 - 3:50 nun into the devil transformation is intense and hilarious.



Title: Re: Songs that heal you? Give you the determination to keep going?
Post by: neverloveagain on May 06, 2014, 01:50:52 AM
Therapy get your dead hand off my shoulder


Title: Re: Songs that heal you? Give you the determination to keep going?
Post by: MidKnightsun on May 06, 2014, 02:15:30 AM
Katy Perry    -    HOT N COLD


Title: Re: Songs that heal you? Give you the determination to keep going?
Post by: neverloveagain on May 06, 2014, 06:06:41 PM
My ex BPDgf favourite song she used to play it to me all the time never listened to it properly she always used to play songs that would speak for her without  saying a word. Should of listened more Radio head backdrifts.


Title: Re: Songs that heal you? Give you the determination to keep going?
Post by: Split black on May 06, 2014, 08:22:14 PM
"Under my thumb"... . Stones

"I hate myself for loving you"... . Joan Jett

"You Must Be Out Of Your Mind"... . Magnetic Fields  ( love this one, its perfect)

"  Best of you"  Foo Fighters   ( read the lyrics... . awesome)


Title: Re: Songs that heal you? Give you the determination to keep going?
Post by: neverloveagain on May 06, 2014, 11:57:44 PM
Baz lurman wear sunscreen