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Hey guys!

I usually write either to share experiences or to ask for help. Today I want to share something nice. Well, they tried to trigger me, but I managed to detach. Got a bit nervous, but all ended pretty well.

Background story (I had posted on this, asking for advice), I have an apt that I rent. The president of the building is in a campaign to get me for around 3 years. I suspect shes BPD/ NPD. She harassed me, bullied me and demanded many things that are unreasonable (and illegal).

She managed to get others to back her, so the last meeting was a disaster, they yelled at me like maniacs. I felt I was being attacked by a pack of hyenas. They all (5 people) seemed to enjoy seeing me in distress. I tried to be calm back then but I was dragged into losing my temper. Its not easy to remain cool when you are under attack for a period of time by a group.

Today I got a phone call from one of them on the president´s behaf. Actually I saw the presidents phone number on my ID, but it was her "help". She was by her side giving instructions  :) :) This other lady played nice and tried to put me against the only one there who backs me up somehow. Told me that my "friend" says Im the devil.  :)

Im well aware of the BPD "divide and conquer" tactic. I merely answered that its ok, I dont care if people hate me or love me, actually... . My ego is strong enough to take criticism or flatery... . I said it in a kinder way, as a normal statement, not related to her and she seemed to be caught off-guard. She kept throwing baits at me, but I didnt comment.

It may be stupid, but Im proud I managed to stay cool and detach from the forming drama. They seem to crave it.

I thank all of you who posted, I learnt a lot and Im sure Id be very stressed if it werent for you all... .