Title: 50th birthday surprise Post by: tristesse on May 15, 2014, 07:32:50 AM So yesterday was my 50th birthday, and I figured I would spend the day at work and go home, like every other day, maybe have dinner out with husband, no big deal.
I came home to find that my BPDD had decorated the house, made me dinner and a card and invited my NBPDD to attend. They had a little surprise party for me, and it was awesome. My BPDD planned the entire thing, she even made most of the decorations and SHE cooked , so the time and energy that went into this event is very moving to me. This is a HUGE event for me, and I couldn't express enough to her how much it meant. I couldn't give her enough recognition, I feel so encouraged today. After the crazy bad day she had just the day before, with a total melt down, she still managed to pull this off. There is hope and I feel her love for me ( we all know that is such a rare gift from a BPD ). I hope somebody out there finds encouragement from this GIGANTIC LITTLE event. :) Title: Re: SURPRISE Post by: Thursday on May 15, 2014, 08:46:22 AM hi bpetersen514-
Excerpt GIGANTIC LITTLE event Where is the emoticon with the party hat? We need some fireworks up in here. Here is to all of your DD's successes! Yay! I love that she planned AND did all of the work. Thursday Title: Re: SURPRISE Post by: raytamtay3 on May 15, 2014, 09:11:20 AM HAPPY BIRTHDAY! Very happy to hear you had a great night and that your DD showed you how much she loves and appreciates you!
Title: Re: SURPRISE Post by: jellibeans on May 15, 2014, 09:41:20 AM HAPPY BIRTHDAY bpetersen514!
Your post brought tears to my eyes... . so happy for you and your whole family. Always good to have hope and it is days like this that make it all worth it. Title: Re: SURPRISE Post by: kelc323 on May 15, 2014, 10:17:03 AM What a wonderful, wonderful gift you received! I am so happy for you and your family.
Happy birthday, bpetersen514! Title: Re: SURPRISE Post by: tristesse on May 15, 2014, 10:19:33 AM Thank you all for sharing in this event. This is very encouraging to me and hopefully to others as well. HOORAY !
Title: Re: SURPRISE Post by: lever. on May 15, 2014, 01:23:26 PM Glad you had a lovely birthday.
So encouraging to see the kind girl behind the emotional turmoil and it does give hope for the future |