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Title: CARRESING AS VALIDATION - NOT APPRECIATED ? OR NOT ? Post by: Fanie on June 02, 2014, 08:54:40 AM My wife had a 5 month binging spree
She is much better now saying herself that she should stop drinking The spree was for 5 months ended middle May 2014 We had no sex for this 5 months and she was sleeping on the couch She moved back to the room and in our bed 3 weeks ago I have been caressing her in bed the past two weeks (just slightly rubbing) and of course - if I move to close to the sweet spot (actually I tested her ... . sorry) she turns away My question is the caressing part ? Should I continue to do that - its validating , yes ? Even if she is not showing appreciation ? I wont go to the sweet spot Suggestions please |