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Title: Three is the magic number... Post by: BlondeRunner on June 06, 2014, 10:08:05 AM Hi everyone,
I hope you are all ok today. Just an observation but in the words of De La Soul it seems that "Three, that's the magic number... . " when it comes to pwBPD. I see a disproportionate amount of recycling attempts made around the 3 month mark. Has anyone else noticed this? What is with that? BlondeRunner x Title: Re: Three is the magic number... Post by: OutOfEgypt on June 07, 2014, 10:18:32 AM I think it depends on the person and the situation. I definitely noticed a "cycle" with my ex, when I was married to her. It was about 1.5 - 2 years. However, during our reconciliation attempt after the divorce, it was much shorter... . probably about 3-4 months. Of course, it is possible that I just recognized it much sooner, as well. In other words, in years past I probably allowed things to drag out much longer until they built up to a head. This time, I didn't.
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