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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Detaching and Learning after a Failed Relationship => Topic started by: Lion Fire on June 12, 2014, 07:08:34 AM



Title: Conference call- Panic
Post by: Lion Fire on June 12, 2014, 07:08:34 AM
I have an unresolved cellphone contract with my BPDexgf.

She informed me today by mail that the simplest and quickest way to resolve this is via a conference call with both of us and the service provider.

The other option would be to go to London and we both do it in person or go through a protracted application by mail process.

I agreed that this is the best way to resolve it all and we have a call set up for later today.

This has brought up so much fear and anxiety in me. Even a brief and dry email from her sets me off. I'm afraid of the feelings that may come up when I hear her voice.

Thankfully, this is the only connection we have left.

Damn, this sucks. I just want to be over this and move on in peace!


Title: Re: Conference call- Panic
Post by: Lion Fire on June 12, 2014, 09:06:20 AM
Danger over,

We were able to do it on separate lines with the service provider so there was no interaction. We exchanged short texts afterwards to confirm the the transaction. I have now blocked her again.

Onwards


Title: Re: Conference call- Panic
Post by: Trent on June 12, 2014, 09:28:30 AM
Congrats Lion, I'm glad it turned out OK for you.  Forward!