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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Detaching and Learning after a Failed Relationship => Topic started by: Eric1 on June 16, 2014, 01:45:39 AM



Title: Facebook
Post by: Eric1 on June 16, 2014, 01:45:39 AM
I'm not on Facebook - deleted it along time ago.  I might be looking into this too much, but in Saturday my friend posted a video of me & a couple of mates jumping into a harbour. My ex commented on the video. All it said was 'is that in _____? So funny'

I was obviously clearly in the film, we haven't spoken for about 4 weeks now.

I'm not out the woods yet, otherwise I wouldn't be doing this. But, do you think it was just a harmless comment? Or do you think she might have thought that her commenting would hae got back to me? Because it did.


Title: Re: Facebook
Post by: Red Sky on June 16, 2014, 01:49:52 AM
Umm. I'm going to say that I don't think anyone comments on their exes a month after they broke up without thinking SOMETHING, some kind of emotion. But what that thought is I don't have a clue.

Chances are you will never know what the motivation was. I think that trying to settle that fact in your head will probably be a good idea because, myself included, we can all drive ourselves crazy trying to guess what our exes are up to... .

PS I wish I had friends who would jump into harbours with me!


Title: Re: Facebook
Post by: Blimblam on June 16, 2014, 01:54:49 AM
now I just see any and all communication from my ex as some form of manipulation.


Title: Re: Facebook
Post by: Eric1 on June 16, 2014, 03:34:55 AM
I was only wearing my underwear too  lol

Just thought it was random for her to comment. It was probably just harmless.