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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Detaching and Learning after a Failed Relationship => Topic started by: peiper on June 19, 2014, 06:04:00 PM



Title: controling
Post by: peiper on June 19, 2014, 06:04:00 PM
After looking back, she acussed me of being controling by asking her to wear her seat belt on a trip. Yet Im the one that let her sell my furniture, washer and dryer for next to nothing so she could keep her stuff. I know one thing, it shows Im a chump.


Title: Re: controling
Post by: AG on June 21, 2014, 05:32:32 AM
After looking back, she acussed me of being controling by asking her to wear her seat belt on a trip. Yet I'm the one that let her sell my furniture, washer and dryer for next to nothing so she could keep her stuff. I know one thing, it shows Im a chump.

They teach lessons. Your not a chump. Shes more chumpish. In order for that to happen she more then likely put on a endless amount of pity party action. She is the chump for putting on a show to get things she wants. Asking for sympathy and taking advantage of it when it is given doesn't spell winner to me. Getting things off of just being you and also returning things to show the same level of energy received sounds more like a winner to me. Sponging off someone doesn't sound like a winner to me. Obtaining things off of your own merit and work sounds like a winner to me also. You are not a chump dude non of us are. They totally chump themselves out with each cycle of destruction they repeat.