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Title: JEALOUSY IN BPD PARTNERS (WIFES) Post by: Fanie on June 20, 2014, 05:20:10 AM Hi everybody
How do you experience jealousy in your relationship with BPDw My wife seems to nonchalant Might be as I have never cheated het in our 10 years together (whereas I cant say the same of her) I would like to know the experiences of other members Title: Re: JEALOUSY IN BPD PARTNERS (WIFES) Post by: going places on June 20, 2014, 06:23:38 AM I was never jealous.
I was secure, and drank the koolaid and believed he felt the same. Found out 3 years ago, he was having an affair. I was never 'jealous' of the other woman. I was never 'jealous' of his addiction. I felt sorry for the other woman, and I loathed his addiction (didn't know about that until 3 years ago) I am sure he has been seeing other woman, and I don't care. They are getting, no prize. HE was NEVER jealous of me or if other men talked to me or looked at me or hugged me... . He didn't care. As long as the house was clean, everything was taken care of and his needs were met, he didn't care about me or anything I was doing. I could have had 10 affairs and as long as I was doing the above, he wouldn't care. It's all about him, his needs, his wants, his desires. I am not a jealous person, nor would I tolerate a jealous person. |