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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Conflicted About Continuing, Divorcing/Custody, Co-parenting => Topic started by: FigureIt on June 20, 2014, 09:22:13 AM



Title: Making sense of crazy
Post by: FigureIt on June 20, 2014, 09:22:13 AM
So yesterday had to work madatory until after 4, then went grocery shopping.  Which I had told my uBPDbf the night before, I would be going to the store.  So, I get home with a ton of groceries at 5:35.  He helps me unload, but then tells me he got out of work an 1 1/2hrs. early and was going to take me golfing, but i wasn't home. 

I asked... . "Why didn't you text me? I would've skipped going to the store and come home."

His reply... . really nothing.  I said "why don't we go now?"  His reply "No, I just worked out and can't play golf after I lift... . "  My thoughts... . WHATEVER!

So, I threw something out and saw a receipt in the trash from the pharmacy ripped up.  I look at the date/time and it was yesterday at 4:57pm.  How is it possible that he was home 1 1/2hrs. early yet was at the pharmacy 40mins. ago. 

So... . His story was all a lie!  WHY?  WHAT IS THE POINT?

Then he happened to know I had gone somewhere for lunch the other day... . when I asked how he knew he told me someone saw me.  Which I thought was a bit weird cuz I had gone through the drive thru.  Then I found the receipt from that lunch on the front seat of my car.  So, AGAIN IT WAS ALL A LIE!  AGAIN WHY?



Title: Re: Making sense of crazy
Post by: raytamtay3 on June 20, 2014, 09:28:20 AM
When you figure it out, let me know will ya? (Making sense of crazy).