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My ex placed on FB a few statements the last couple of days and I did look but I wonder if this is a hook? He said Can you miss someone you haven't met yet? Also was putting out there that Tuesday might be a good day because something was suppose to happen good for him... . very vague. Also he placed one of those premade things that stated that he was afraid to lose people in his life and wondered if anyone was afraid to lose him. He also said he was listening to music and texted you are missed... . and he has been putting comments on a girl that is 13 years younger than him like flirting. He also said he like to hold the one he loved during a thunderstorm to protect them. That is a big fat lie... . at first he is lovey dovey but after the honeymoon phase for get it... . I just wondered if that was his hook to hook his next victim?He make himself look so good LOL

Most of what they do is a hook for their next victim.  They probably aren't even aware of it.  It's like walking or breathing.  It's certainly a hook for you, though.  And it has worked.  Look at how its eating you up inside.

I think its a number of things.

Firstly a hook for his next target.

Secondly a broader look everyone Im really nice.

And thirdly trying to get your attention by saying look what your missing Im really nice.

My ex has done a few odd things on facebook since we split. Her posts used to be few and far between then she had a flurry off them. At first she got the attention with lots of people liking them but now she maybe gets one like.

... . what enlighten me said.  all 3 of those.  my ex is driven by at least two things:

1. dominating men with her sexuality

2. convincing herself and everybody else that she's really a good, kind, giving person who is just misunderstood

He's your ex, right?

Make it so, NC, no FB, walk away.  You won't achieve peace doing what you are doing.

Live your life.

Thanks all know you are so right!