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Title: Actually ready to move, the time is here. Post by: lettinggoletmego on June 26, 2014, 03:06:01 PM A quick recap and or summary. I been lving with my BPDex for going on 4 years. I told him I wanted to move back to my family in January. I know I didnt follow through. However I was waiting for a transfer which I just received a letter yesterday that I got it. I will be miving 2 and half hours away in approximately the begining of August. The big question is when do I tell him. Im afraid if I tell him now there be a fight evey day and we work together in the same place now. We already have arguments but not everday and he starts every one.He is a low functioning BPD. When I go he wont have someone to do everything for him. So I dont know wht can happene but im trying to be strong cuz he knows when I am weak and takes advantage. I did not place a restraining order or anythi. He never hit me or kids. Please help.
Title: Re: Actually ready to move, the time is here. Post by: GaGrl on June 26, 2014, 04:14:06 PM Interesting situation, with the transfer approved.
What are the transfer/relocation arrangements/benefits? Are you having your move compensated? Will you have temporary lodging, etc.? What are the current arrangements of the lease or ownership/mortage at your current residence? All this could make a difference in how or when you talk with him? Title: Re: Actually ready to move, the time is here. Post by: lettinggoletmego on June 27, 2014, 04:27:18 AM We are both on the lease. I will be moving with family. Im moving back to where all my family is.
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