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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Detaching and Learning after a Failed Relationship => Topic started by: Willingtolearn on July 01, 2014, 03:52:51 PM



Title: Dancing Al Alone.
Post by: Willingtolearn on July 01, 2014, 03:52:51 PM
 If we went to a dance, and i was either to tired to dance or didn't feel like doing so, my exBPDgf would go onto the dance floor and dance all alone by herself.

Did anyone else experience this behavior from there exBPDgf?


Title: Re: Dancing Al Alone.
Post by: willbegood on July 01, 2014, 05:48:41 PM
You're probably being a little too specific to get many replies to your question.

Most women I know would go on the dance floor and dance if I didn't dance or didn't want to. Some people enjoy dancing at a dance club.  :)


Title: Re: Dancing Al Alone.
Post by: trappedinlove on July 02, 2014, 01:56:37 AM
On top of that, I noticed intense dissociation when dancing, even when we were together on the dance floor at some point I felt she's not with me nor with anyone else but rather she's mentally alone in her own world.  Empty, cold, dissociated eyes.  That reminded me of the insanity she's dealing with (and of course triggered a lot of love and affection to her, wanting to be there for her, help her, and be the one she can always talk to about these feelings and situation, even post-factum)



Title: Re: Dancing Al Alone.
Post by: Blimblam on July 02, 2014, 02:53:50 AM
If we went to a dance, and i was either to tired to dance or didn't feel like doing so, my exBPDgf would go onto the dance floor and dance all alone by herself.

Did anyone else experience this behavior from there exBPDgf?

yes and it was one of the most beautiful things I have ever seen. The potential for pure expression of her inner beauty, cherish it.  I danced too.


Title: Re: Dancing Al Alone.
Post by: Blimblam on July 02, 2014, 02:58:05 AM
On top of that, I noticed intense dissociation when dancing, even when we were together on the dance floor at some point I felt she's not with me nor with anyone else but rather she's mentally alone in her own world.  Empty, cold, dissociated eyes.  That reminded me of the insanity she's dealing with (and of course triggered a lot of love and affection to her, wanting to be there for her, help her, and be the one she can always talk to about these feelings and situation, even post-factum)

maybe she is embracing her world.  Dancing can induce trance states.