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Title: Always back to bargaining Post by: Karmachameleon on July 04, 2014, 11:34:35 PM Why is it that every time I think I have reached acceptance I wake up the next day in complete and total bargaining mode? So frustrating! Make it stop! Will it ever?
Title: Re: Always back to bargaining Post by: Mutt on July 05, 2014, 08:20:44 PM Why is it that every time I think I have reached acceptance I wake up the next day in complete and total bargaining mode? So frustrating! Make it stop! Will it ever? Have I got this right? You had a recent breakup from a BPDbf and your BPDexH is back in the picture after 4 years of being split black he's suddenly idealizing you? https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=228465.0 You may cycle through a grieving stage in any order and more than once Karmachameleon. You have a lot on your plate right now. You are grieving one r/s and your H that you have a long history with suddenly treats you differently. There are a lot of feelings to deal and cope with. It is important to take care of you. Don't be hard on yourself. Title: Re: Always back to bargaining Post by: Karmachameleon on July 06, 2014, 12:11:05 AM You're sweet. Thank you. Yes, the last thing I needed in this whole process was for my exh to start being randomly nice. Ugh. I'm ok, though.
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