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Title: Turned to black Post by: KeepOnGoing on July 09, 2014, 04:33:22 PM I think I got turned to black. Does that mean that I became one of the carcasses? Am I one of a long line of people who did her wrong? My friends think that I will hear from her again that the friendship is not over, but I have a funny feeling I'm not going to hear from her again. It's been 10 days of no contact, and it's killing me.
Title: Re: Turned to black Post by: LettingGo14 on July 09, 2014, 04:42:18 PM I think I got turned to black. Does that mean that I became one of the carcasses? Am I one of a long line of people who did her wrong? My friends think that I will hear from her again that the friendship is not over, but I have a funny feeling I'm not going to hear from her again. It's been 10 days of no contact, and it's killing me. I'm sorry KOG. It is brutal and hard. But ---------> detachment leads to freedom. There are some good reading materials here regarding things that keep us stuck, as well as certain behaviors to understand: Surviving a Breakup with Someone Suffering with Borderline Personality Disorder - 10 Beliefs That Can Get You Stuck (https://bpdfamily.com/pdfs/10_beliefs.pdf) BPD BEHAVIORS: Silent treatment - verbal abuse. (https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=68733.0) BPD BEHAVIORS: Splitting (https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=62033.0) |