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He is coming for his furniture in two weeks. The only bill in his name here was the Comcast merely by accident. I get this lengthy email yesterday from him that "due to the nature of the equipment,"  they will be coming and removing everything,  so I would be without phone, internet, or tv. WHAAT? Called Comcast, and they said he asked for it to be this way, and not to transfer to my name.  When I questioned it, I get the rage all over again. Glad he made the right decision to go, I should find my perfect match,     I know it's redundant,  but just had to vent about how he keeps poking me for a reaction, since I am ignoring him. The last vestage of connection we have, the stupid cable bill, he has to stick it to me and be difficult.  I am so sick of every single thing with him being a drama. Thanks for letting me get it out once more

Been there, done that. 

It's like they are addicted to making us suffer, and grasp at straws any way they can. Mine is also clinging to whatever little joint financial nonsense we have, however irrelevant, and using it in any and every way imaginable to make me suffer, even just a bit.

Sometimes I tell people about the things he does, and they just stare at me in disbelief. As if to say, "Are you serious? Who even THINKS of this kind of thing?"

Disembedding ourselves financially is also another difficult process, I think. Money is just another way for them to control.

And vent all you want. That's why we're here! 

Thanks Momma Bear. That's exactly why I feel silly telling people these things. Someone said to me also, "Who has the time to plot and think like that?" With his objective being,  how can I ruin her day today,  since I am miserable... .Thanks for the hug  :)

Good for you for recognizing it for what it is.  It's almost over, hang in there.