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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Detaching and Learning after a Failed Relationship => Topic started by: thesculptor on July 17, 2014, 08:35:37 PM



Title: My reply to her just recent texts.
Post by: thesculptor on July 17, 2014, 08:35:37 PM
She just sent me a photo of her and her friend at lady gaga concert. ...

to which i replied a peace sign emoji con, and a smiling yogi.

why? just to show her i got it... and thats all i have to say. ... .

i feel a lot better,. sort of like... ...

ok ... you be you... .ill be me... it is what it is...

i also told her.

I'm sorry, i forgive you, I love you, thank you.

and i feel fine... gonna go home, eat, and do a little dj music. i feel my life coming back to me slowly.

i feel better.

-thesculptor.

I've tried completely ignoring. i feel ... when i do that... i keep thinking about her.

this is helping me... its like... .the red tarp, you give to a torro,, its like pacifying the fuel they have... till they get tired... and bored with the situation.

it also lets her know I'm serious about the boundaries and space I've set. so its a polite, saying... thank you for thinking of me... .ill leave you to your day now. peaceful...


Title: Re: My reply to her just recent texts.
Post by: Mutt on July 18, 2014, 09:20:27 AM
I've tried completely ignoring. i feel ... when i do that... i keep thinking about her.

this is helping me... its like... .the red tarp, you give to a torro,, its like pacifying the fuel they have... till they get tired... and bored with the situation.

Detaching is hard and it takes time to get into the zone with not responding at all. Keep it up thesculptor  |iiii