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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Bettering a Relationship or Reversing a Breakup => Topic started by: calmboom on July 24, 2014, 11:17:56 AM



Title: My invisible cloak
Post by: calmboom on July 24, 2014, 11:17:56 AM
After 15 days of ST and no visuals or any kind of contact, I had a uBPD BF sighting today at work. 

I was speaking with a coworker in the coffee room and she asked about my trip,,(yes the One BF and I and all our children took together just a few weeks ago).   I was happily telling her how fun it was and how we all enjoyed this and that.  And I looked up and there HE was.  He didn't acknowledge me- no looks of recognition or anything.  But I am certain he heard the conversation.  I felt as if I was wearing an invisible cloak.

He went on to get his coffee and left.  I continued my fun conversation.  Shortly, thereafter I peeked and saw he had left the building for the day.  Maybe I was "visible" after all.



Title: Re: My invisible cloak
Post by: Rapt Reader on July 24, 2014, 08:18:36 PM
Wow... .that's pretty weird 

How did your coworker react? Did she say anything or ask you any questions? Is this situation uncomfortable for your coworkers?

I'm really sorry for your "invisible cloak" but you do sound like you are handling this in a very mature, balanced way. I admire your good attitude and stamina, calmboom

I hope that things soon become more normal for you, or resolved