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Title: Need a reminder Post by: Lilflower on August 01, 2014, 08:23:39 AM Today is my BPD ex bf's bday. He usually gets depressed a few weeks prior to his bday because sadly a week later is also the bday of his deceased brother. Last year was a nightmare. I became the enemy for simply breathing during this time of year. I know it sounds selfish, all things considered, but this is about my mental health at this point, not his... .
Can I get a shout out that he is still miserable this year too. In my mind this year he is happy and lighthearted and maybe with someone new to take his mind off of it. Title: Re: Need a reminder Post by: maternal on August 01, 2014, 08:47:15 AM I'm pretty sure that they're always miserable.
Regardless of what it looks like on the outside, they're never truly happy, even when they made us feel happy. I don't think it ever changes for them. |