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Title: Birthdays Post by: swiftkick on August 02, 2014, 04:25:10 PM Seeing another thread made me realize our birthdays are coming up. They're five days apart, and we have always made a big deal making sure each other's days are special. They have also been used as a reason to get a foot back in the door when on an "out" cycle. How do I prepare myself for this? I wasn't prepared before because I always held out hope. It will take every ounce of strength I've gained to resist being pulled back in and my own triggers of not wanting to feel like a big jerk when I say that I can't participate this year. I'm all he has, really. Hopefully our child will suffice to celebrate with this year.
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