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Title: Telling on Myself Post by: nolisan on August 12, 2014, 05:34:07 PM So last night I was on Facebook and noticed a familiar name on "People You Might Know".
The exBPDgf! I'm two months short of 2 years NC and doing well. (how the heck did FB know that I might know her?... .a little spooky) I have to admit curiosity got the better of me and I clicked on her profile. No big deal - she has changed her hair style and color - about 10 friends. I stopped before I started "investigating" her friends. So ... .I am just telling on myself - not beating myself up. I am going to resist any urges to look again, or parish the thought, send her a friend request. That's all for now ... .back to the present moment. Noles Title: Re: Telling on Myself Post by: seeking balance on August 12, 2014, 06:18:48 PM Ho harm, no foul... .humans are curious creatures.
How do you feel? Title: Re: Telling on Myself Post by: nolisan on August 12, 2014, 06:57:20 PM Thanks for asking.
Yep ... .brought back some memories - good and bad. I'm at a place now of accepting how things happened and played out. I have compassion for both of us. Still love her but know I can never be with her - for both of our sakes. Title: Re: Telling on Myself Post by: seeking balance on August 12, 2014, 07:04:23 PM Thanks for asking. Yep ... .brought back some memories - good and bad. I'm at a place now of accepting how things happened and played out. I have compassion for both of us. Still love her but know I can never be with her - for both of our sakes. You know, I think this is as good as it gets in acceptance |iiii |