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Title: Another text Post by: BacknthSaddle on August 22, 2014, 05:38:10 PM After making my NC desires clear, haven't heard from the ex in any form for three weeks. Today got two texts: "I know I can be an exceedingly difficult and selfish person" followed by "you have been a positive person in my life, and I am grateful for that."
Of course I was a lot more than a "positive person," and this was someone who told me last time we talked that I was "not a good person" and "a narcissistic ___hole." Anyway, I have no impulse to respond. I just wanted to post here, because I find that it helps. Any thoughts are welcome. Title: Re: Another text Post by: enlighten me on August 22, 2014, 05:51:48 PM One of my exgf favourite phrases was "I know I'm hard work"
Its amazing that they feel being hard work or difficult gets anywhere near to their true behaviour. Title: Re: Another text Post by: Mutt on August 22, 2014, 08:11:27 PM She has a need. You are split white.
Title: Re: Another text Post by: Caramel on August 22, 2014, 11:30:21 PM Hi Back
She really meant what she said in those texts, TODAY. Tomorrow is a different matter though! "People do come with warning labels. YOU HAVE TO BELIEVE THEM. Actions speak louder than words. You have to let go of the words. They seem deep - but words don't count. ~Words *dont* count.~ Actions DO." 2010 Stay strong. |