Title: Planing a weddign with a pwBPD Post by: maxsterling on August 31, 2014, 06:07:13 PM Just a vent - other things I can pick up the slack, go about my business and let her go about hers (if she wants to).
But try planning a wedding with someone who: - is obsessed about money and how much things cost. - can't make a decision about anything. - gets overwhelmed dealing with others, especially family. - is paranoid about what others think of her. - is so completely impatient that she can't understand why a business person won't call her back by 8 am on a holiday weekend. I'll try to go about my business and not worry about how this could turn into a dysregulated disaster. I wonder if she thinks about why previous boyfriends told her she was not marriage material. |