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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Detaching and Learning after a Failed Relationship => Topic started by: Harlygirl on September 04, 2014, 11:27:03 AM



Title: Questions about BPD emotions & intimacy
Post by: Harlygirl on September 04, 2014, 11:27:03 AM
Does intimacy trigger the pwBPD in the sense that they feel their insecurities about themselves... .and the relationship are exposed?  Is it about trust? Or the lack thereof?


Title: Love and Fear
Post by: Harlygirl on September 04, 2014, 11:35:41 AM
Does the pwBPD "ACT OUT" the FEAR of the LOSS of an attachment/relationship REGARDLESS of love for the SO?  Even if it means ending the relationship, and living a life without the person they love?


Title: Re: Questions about BPD emotions & intimacy
Post by: Harlygirl on September 04, 2014, 11:38:59 AM
Does the pwBPD maintain "feelings" for past SO... .without really KNOWING what those feelings are?


Title: Re: Love and Fear
Post by: LettingGo14 on September 04, 2014, 11:41:33 AM
Hello Harlygirl.  There are excellent resources here:  Questions about BPD and BPD Resources (https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?board=45.0)

Including:  BPD BEHAVIORS: How it feels to have BPD (https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=67059.0)


Title: Re: Love and Fear
Post by: Harlygirl on September 04, 2014, 11:43:56 AM
Thank you LettingGo :)