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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Detaching and Learning after a Failed Relationship => Topic started by: merlin4926 on September 04, 2014, 04:33:49 PM



Title: Hanging out with his mates bad idea?
Post by: merlin4926 on September 04, 2014, 04:33:49 PM
My ex BPD has fallen out with several of his female mates and I ended up going out on sat with them had really good time. I didn't say a lot about him but it made me feel better hearing that they had witnessed some of the bad behaviour to me and thought I had done the right thing in telling him we were done. I ended up with them again tonight and it's made the pain bit easier.

Wondered what people thought? Am I playing with fire. Although they not in contact with him at the moment that could easily change?

Grateful for anyone's thoughts!