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Title: Recycle go round Post by: FollowingBliss on September 05, 2014, 04:14:20 AM Help, the ex is calling and texting again. He says he misses me, and is so loving and attentive. red-flag I know I need to stay NC, and start making better choices. I just miss him so much. Does this get any easier?
Title: Re: Recycle go round Post by: freedom33 on September 05, 2014, 06:33:35 AM The more you keep going with this the more difficult will be to get out of this. Snap out of it.
Reading this helps me. www.en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Power_and_control_in_abusive_relationships Title: Re: Recycle go round Post by: Infern0 on September 05, 2014, 06:35:41 AM BLOCK HIM
Title: Re: Recycle go round Post by: FollowingBliss on September 05, 2014, 01:03:05 PM I try to block him, inferno, then after a week end up giving in. He would wait it out, usually, then respond in kind.I blame myself that I am being cruel and hurting him. That article summed it up, freedom33, other than the physical abuse (none of that, or I
would have been gone a long time ago). I agree with you this is a terrible cycle, which I ned to break. That is why I am here. |