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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Detaching and Learning after a Failed Relationship => Topic started by: brokenbutalive on September 06, 2014, 04:56:42 AM



Title: Gifts from your ex?
Post by: brokenbutalive on September 06, 2014, 04:56:42 AM
It's been 18 months since I left her, and 5 months since our last contact (which was her mothers funeral). Today i received an envelope containing a gift voucher for a hotel (for 2 people) and a nice letter from her saying she won the voucher in a raffle and wanted to give it to me for my birthday (which was a month ago). I mean seriously, what the heck? Presumably in her mind I'm supposed to whisk her away with me to this place and the whole thing starts again? Talk about manipulation... .

Anything similar happen u guys?



Title: Re: Gifts from your ex?
Post by: Lolster on September 06, 2014, 07:01:18 AM
Take someone else.  :)


Title: Re: Gifts from your ex?
Post by: Recooperating on September 06, 2014, 07:11:34 AM
Wow! All I can say is:

Crazy do, as crazy does!

I think I am split black forever... .The gift Im expecting is the decapataded head of a horse in my bed... .  lol


Title: Re: Gifts from your ex?
Post by: Mr Hollande on September 06, 2014, 07:27:45 AM
Send it back marked "Hazardous Material". Do not pass go!  lol


Title: Re: Gifts from your ex?
Post by: brokenbutalive on September 06, 2014, 07:45:39 AM
Honestly don't know what to do. I know she has been grief stricken over her mother since April and I feel for her because of that but really what am I meant to do about this... . 


Title: Re: Gifts from your ex?
Post by: Mr Hollande on September 06, 2014, 08:34:27 AM
Unless you want to take up her offer then my advice, sans joke, is the same as before. Return it!



Title: Re: Gifts from your ex?
Post by: Rifka on September 06, 2014, 09:06:46 AM
My ex dropped off roses and a bag of stuff for my kids, a card. I didn't even acknowledge it for fear of it starting again.

He hardly ever bought me anything, so it was his attempt because he knew I loved that color roses.

I think when you find somebody worthy and special, you should take that person.