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Title: About staying with a BPD, with the possibillity of making that person worse. Post by: borderdude on September 11, 2014, 06:35:13 AM I quote from this site:
-------------------------------------- staying with them, you are keeping them from developing the emotional capacities. You are enabling them to continue being emotionally ill. ----------------------------------------- I have an unique radar for the BPD and bipolar , as my mother have issues from both camps. I also have been with a girl before witch showed all possible behaviors mention under the BPD, but I'm not capable diagnosing people. After I detected that my new girlfriend checked off several boxes in the BPD, I decided to go no contact. I still feel I have to tell her some info about her possible state as I see her suffering, so she can hopefully recover, maybe write an email later on. I am an empath, I read people very well, in the start I told her that I saw a little girl in her, afraid being abandoned. She was positive, later on I saw how right I really was. Q's: * How can my loving accompaniment with a BPD make her worce? * Should I gently tell her about what I think about her possible BPD in the future? I guess I want a kind of comfort that I did the right thing of avoiding her, as she try to charm me in, anyway thank you. Title: Re: About staying with a BPD, with the possibillity of making that person worse. Post by: borderdude on September 11, 2014, 07:05:05 AM I have spoken to her new 15yo younger boyfriend , he tries got get rid of her , they have broken up up tree times (in the last 3 weeks) she tries desperately to suck him in, he hopefully see how crazy she is,
the latest is, he let her have the "in a relationship with ---hisname---", on facebook status, while he got no info in relationship status. |