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Title: BPD girl ex found a new , but she still wants me "back" Post by: borderdude on September 12, 2014, 01:24:45 PM She acts like a little girl trying to suck me in , but what is the psychology here?
she knows she display non-trustfulness behavior to me by behaving this way , in case she succeed , I will doubt here even more (if that is possible)! Title: Re: BPD girl ex found a new , but she still wants me "back" Post by: Algae on September 14, 2014, 11:47:09 PM She wants you as a back up in case her new fling doesnt work out. youre a safety net.
She's like, "Oh he's there and I told him I want him soo I'll go with this other guy and if it doesnt work out then rolfie123 will still want me." Title: Re: BPD girl ex found a new , but she still wants me "back" Post by: Infern0 on September 15, 2014, 12:35:30 AM What's she say when you bring up the new guy?
"I can't leave him but let's be friends and get back together later"? Something like that? Unacceptable behaviour I'm afraid. Don't do it, only ever consider reopening communication if this dude is GONE. Until then she gets NOTHING from you. Boundaries, man. Title: Re: BPD girl ex found a new , but she still wants me "back" Post by: borderdude on September 15, 2014, 01:12:29 AM Need to hear it , thanks for the support.
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