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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Detaching and Learning after a Failed Relationship => Topic started by: Chasing_Ghosts on September 12, 2014, 03:21:29 PM



Title: Im freaking out..
Post by: Chasing_Ghosts on September 12, 2014, 03:21:29 PM
Got a call from aultman hospital on my cell i missed... my guts telling me its her and with the heroin usage being brought back... im scared as hell. I know its not my family as i made sure of that. Could be her mom possibly since shes got cancer but either way im at the verge of another anxiety attack... On top of it today was when i was going to show her mother the texts about her usage again but what if im too late...


Title: Re: Im freaking out..
Post by: SpringInMyStep on September 12, 2014, 03:50:12 PM
Ohhh I'm sorry! Are you guys NC?


Title: Re: Im freaking out..
Post by: Chasing_Ghosts on September 12, 2014, 04:38:43 PM
Thanks for your sentiment strawberries. No were LC on more or less her terms.


Title: Re: Im freaking out..
Post by: SpringInMyStep on September 12, 2014, 04:57:55 PM
 

I understand being concerned about her... .I really do. A few weeks ago I posted on here about how I hadn't seen my wife (NC) online for a few days and I was worried. Some people pointed out that it would be really weird if I asked our mutual friend about her, saying um yeah, I was stalking her online and haven't seen any activity. 

My point is that I realize now it's not my job to worry about her anymore. She has to be responsible for herself. It's totally ok and natural to be concerned about her, but you can't control what she does.

Have you heard anything?