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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Conflicted About Continuing, Divorcing/Custody, Co-parenting => Topic started by: oblivian2013 on September 14, 2014, 02:55:50 PM



Title: It's over. I survived.
Post by: oblivian2013 on September 14, 2014, 02:55:50 PM
Final judgement: I get to keep my house.

I was amazed she had yet more lies, more blaming.

What reality was she living in, if any?

The judge's decision is largely based on the "credibility and demeanor" of the parties.

I guess he saw right through her.

Home was purchased with non-marital inheritance

and although I put her on the deed, she left me.

My lawyer prepared me well.

Splitting is a great resource.

Weekly therapy.

Temperance.

DBT,

and everybody here at dbpfamily.com,

thanks for being here and helping me understand

and survive divorcing someone with this very serious mental disorder.







Title: Re: It's over. I survived.
Post by: maxen on September 14, 2014, 04:32:25 PM
fabulous news, oblivian, congratulations.


Title: Re: It's over. I survived.
Post by: catnap on September 14, 2014, 05:35:27 PM
Happy for you that it all went very, very well.


Title: Re: It's over. I survived.
Post by: momtara on September 14, 2014, 07:17:16 PM
Sometimes family court is sane. Wow.


Title: Re: It's over. I survived.
Post by: Landslide2014 on September 15, 2014, 06:22:26 AM
That is for the morning inspiration. I feel the relief in your words. You deserve it!


Title: Re: It's over. I survived.
Post by: birdlady on September 18, 2014, 07:48:14 PM
Congrats.  Every once in a while, there is some sanity in the courts.


Title: Re: It's over. I survived.
Post by: sanemom on September 18, 2014, 09:19:13 PM
Love it when the system works right... .just refreshing.

Enjoy and breathe!


Title: Re: It's over. I survived.
Post by: scraps66 on September 19, 2014, 08:37:21 AM
Congrats!  We need far more of these stories to celebrate.