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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Detaching and Learning after a Failed Relationship => Topic started by: Harlygirl on September 16, 2014, 08:42:38 AM



Title: Fantasy and reality
Post by: Harlygirl on September 16, 2014, 08:42:38 AM
How do I reconcile that my BPDexbf had/has multiple parallel relationships? Is the "primary"relationship more "real" and less fantasy?... .How are these relationships different?... .Or if they are not different, than how are they the same?


Title: Re: Fantasy and reality
Post by: Mutt on September 16, 2014, 09:47:28 AM
Do you mean Karpman drama triangle?


Title: Re: Fantasy and reality
Post by: LettingGo14 on September 16, 2014, 09:48:56 AM
How do I reconcile that my BPDexbf had/has multiple parallel relationships? Is the "primary"relationship more "real" and less fantasy?... .How are these relationships different?... .Or if they are not different, than how are they the same?

Hi Harlygirl,

Where are you in your healing process?  How does understanding your ex help at this moment?  

I ask sincerely because you have been on a journey for answers, and I would like to understand how it fits into helping you heal.

Thanks,

LG14