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Title: I think I am there Post by: Tincup on September 16, 2014, 03:48:40 PM Hi all,
I think I am finally at the point where I don't care. We have been broken up for a year, and it has taken me the entire year to get to this point but I am here finally. Now don't get me wrong, I don't wish her any harm or ill wishes. Contrary to to that, I wish her all the happiness in the future. But where I am finally at is I am not consumed anymore, she doesn't drive my thoughts anymore, she doesn't impact my behavior anymore. She no longer has any impact on my life! I don't care anymore if I run into her on the street, if I see her car, if I see her walking, etc. What a freeing time this is. Everyone will get there, just keep up the good work and post when you need to. I didn't think it would take a full year, and NC was my BEST FRIEND. Stay strong- Tincup Title: Re: I think I am there Post by: PhoenixBlack on September 16, 2014, 04:30:26 PM Hi Tincup! Congrats mate - really pleased for you!
I can't wait until I'm where you are! I still have a way to go but seeing this is a really positive sign |iiii Title: Re: I think I am there Post by: Popcorn71 on September 16, 2014, 04:39:00 PM I'm happy for you |iiii
I'm getting there after a year also - maybe not as far on as you, but definately improving and much much happier :) |