Title: Protecting myself and my family but still allowing my son to see his grandmother Post by: cad2009 on September 17, 2014, 06:51:22 PM My mother has BPD possibly NPD. She vacillates between being loving to angry, cruel and even violent. I thought that she as doing well but then on a gorilla weekend she became unstable, aggressive violent and then ultimately a weak sobbing victum. It's been nearly a year and I have had limited contact with her. I've been in therapy but I am only realizing now after she started calling again, acting like nothing happened that I may be suffering from PTSD. I have found myself feeling irrationally feaurful of h showing up at my house ( she does not love on the same state) unexpectedly. I a really afraid of her and though I feel sad for her, but mostly I don't want anything to do with her. I have discussed this with my sister, who has also been attacked by my mother, (something I've only recently discovered).
I just don't know what to do especially since I e just discovered that my mother has some health concerns that could be serious. |