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Title: New supply? Post by: Climbmountains91 on September 19, 2014, 11:17:54 AM Can BPDs find "new supply" with friends rather than a "love interest/replacement"?. My ex BPD boyfriend is always with these "new friends" now who I personally think are not a good influence on him and his other friends have said to me they are feeling left behind like they don't matter anymore and I can see where there coming from. I've said nothing to my ex as he can do what he wants and it's not my place but I'm so glad these new friends are moving and going to university. lol! How awful of me.
Title: Re: New supply? Post by: thereishope on September 19, 2014, 11:22:55 AM Can BPDs find "new supply" with friends rather than a "love interest/replacement"?. My ex BPD boyfriend is always with these "new friends" now who I personally think are not a good influence on him and his other friends have said to me they are feeling left behind like they don't matter anymore and I can see where there coming from. I've said nothing to my ex as he can do what he wants and it's not my place but I'm so glad these new friends are moving and going to university. lol! How awful of me. I'm thinking my uBPDh has this new supply with his phone imobster game... .Thankfully he has tried to respect me by keeping it males :)... .But the majority of his time is spent playing the game... .being a boss in the game... .helping other people become better in the game... .etc... . Title: Re: New supply? Post by: workinprogress on September 19, 2014, 11:32:43 AM I think what happens is they wear the mask, and can only maintain it for so long. So, they always need new supply and discard friends and lovers.
Title: Re: New supply? Post by: Climbmountains91 on September 19, 2014, 11:42:35 AM Can BPDs find "new supply" with friends rather than a "love interest/replacement"?. My ex BPD boyfriend is always with these "new friends" now who I personally think are not a good influence on him and his other friends have said to me they are feeling left behind like they don't matter anymore and I can see where there coming from. I've said nothing to my ex as he can do what he wants and it's not my place but I'm so glad these new friends are moving and going to university. lol! How awful of me. I'm thinking my uBPDh has this new supply with his phone imobster game... .Thankfully he has tried to respect me by keeping it males :)... .But the majority of his time is spent playing the game... .being a boss in the game... .helping other people become better in the game... .etc... . Haha men and there freakin games. I'm glad he's giving you some respect with it. My ex is the same always on his stupid Xbox with his new supply of friends and on Skype on the computer games with them. His more interested in them than seeing his own daughter. Workinprogress - they'll probably see for what he is soon unless there emotionally immature like him, by what I know of them they are lol! |