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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Detaching and Learning after a Failed Relationship => Topic started by: willtimeheal on September 21, 2014, 09:13:23 AM



Title: For all of us
Post by: willtimeheal on September 21, 2014, 09:13:23 AM
We are all at different stages of detachment and we are all struggling. I heard a saying yesterday and I thought how profound. It applies to all of us here on the detaching board. We will all stumble, question our sanity and ourselves, question what if, go through pain we never thought possible.

"Stop worrying about what ifs and start embracing what will be."

We know they are not going to get better. We know that we did all we could and even sacrificed ourselves, it's time to move forward and take care of us. Doesn't mean you don't love them or care about them but there is someone right now that needs and loves you and that is YOU!

Have a great day my friends!


Title: Re: For all of us
Post by: rollercoaster24 on September 21, 2014, 09:38:02 AM
Thanks so much 'willtimeheal'

Wonderful post and very poignant

Cheers

Roller