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This is the story of my wife finally getting help for her dangerous rages and mental issues.

After many promises to get help but never following through on any of them she made an appointment with a psychiatrist only after others had heard about a particular horrible rage incident against me which I'm sure had embarrased her. After being embarrased she changed the vibe to now she was going to courageously seek help and conquer all. She was a very brave woman. She had a ton of BFF support. She told me of her courageous and strong decision to go through with it.

She went to the P and then called me on the phone mad about an hour later. She filled me in on what was discussed at the "session". She told the P a ton of lies and delusional stuff. Especially that I am a "controlling a$$hole". She told me the P agreed that I am a "controlling a$$hole". She for months quoted her P to me that I am a "controlling a$$hole" whenever she felt like that should be mentioned to me. She told her BFF's and they said I am a "controlling a$$hole" too and she told her WARPED family members and they said I am a "controlling a$$hole" also. She never went to another session and refused to go to couples sessions elsewhere and just abandoned the ship instead.

What a joke that was.

Man, the irony.  That sucks.  It's just so not fair.  That must have hurt pretty bad to get your hopes up to run it in your face like that.

Sorry to break this to you. Mine did the same thing - Told me that the P said so many things which I thought was impossible. She was never at the P my friend. Trust.

so if all of these people think that you are "an a$$hole". is she calling you to take your opinion whether you are and ___hole or not ?  :) (mommy you are so bad cause you dont want to buy me candy "stuff". is she trying to rub it in your face with shaming you ? she thinks you are still in the FOG ? really lol . trust me if you sound indifferent in the call that would drive her crazy (please try to !).

and btw this therapist thing did not really happen. if her therapist agreed that you are controlling why would not she go to continue her therapy sessions ? stating that she does not want to go again means that the therapist asked her to come to his\her office again and that the therapy is not over but she does not want to go. she does not want to face herself. she painted you and her therapist black.

Ohhhhhhhhh the HE WAS SO CONTROLLING card they play!

Yeah I was a controlling Ogre too. I had to be the worlds worst controlling ogre though as she managed to have several affairs right under my nose. PROJECTION, PROJECTION, PROJECTION !

Yes it is... .A JOKE.

Hang in there brother... .MWC... .*)

There are two sides to every story Awakenedone. The P should understand triangulation.

I can't control what my ex says about me and it is her issue if she's smearing me and not mine. Keep your head high. The truth has a way of working it's way out.