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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Detaching and Learning after a Failed Relationship => Topic started by: coasterhusband on September 23, 2014, 04:13:32 PM



Title: I did it
Post by: coasterhusband on September 23, 2014, 04:13:32 PM
The last few weeks have been a bit of a blur... .and an "unblurring" too. I filed for divorce, moved out, and am working on the process and proceedings.

Now if my soon-to-be-ex can engage a lawyer so we can move to close, I'll be all good :)

I'll write more later, but I have to thank everyone on this site for the year+ of support that has helped to bring me here. It's been a challenging few years, but I am seeing a clear path to recovery and positivity.

Life is good again, and I have some work to do on myself to make sure I keep it that way!


Title: Re: I did it
Post by: Flora73 on September 23, 2014, 04:54:17 PM
Well done coaster husband!

A long road but you have done the work.

Enjoy life and the endless possibilities still to come!



Title: Re: I did it
Post by: NorthLight on September 23, 2014, 05:05:05 PM
Good for you , congratulations :D

I think each time I read a story about someone coming out of a BPD-rs and are actually surviving and being happy again, it makes me (and hopefully others) motivated and one step closer to become happy and over this emotional mess too :)

Keep your spirit up and good luck


Title: Re: I did it
Post by: PhoenixBlack on September 23, 2014, 05:08:37 PM
Great news Coaster! All the best and thanks for sharing - gives us hope.


Title: Re: I did it
Post by: Mutt on September 23, 2014, 11:50:26 PM
Congrats coasterhusband. Good to hear you're in good spirits.

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