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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Conflicted About Continuing, Divorcing/Custody, Co-parenting => Topic started by: Hawk Ridge on September 27, 2014, 09:29:49 AM



Title: Wierd facebook habit
Post by: Hawk Ridge on September 27, 2014, 09:29:49 AM
My ex asked if we could stay friends and I agreed - we are no longer close but we are distantly kind' (whatever that is :-D).  Anyway, we are Facebook friends too so I never post anything personal.   Anyway, does anybody else have this weird thing happen or have a theory as to what it means?   Whenever I am on and she comes on, she goes immediately off.   Same thing when I come online when she is - she immediately goes off.  Like I said, we get along just so fine so I don't get it.  Is she experiencing shame because she left me?  I sense things aren't going great with my replacement as she has tried to meet and has contacted me a few times.  Confusing... .


Title: Re: Wierd facebook habit
Post by: enlighten me on September 27, 2014, 09:37:07 AM
Pretty much the same with me. Have stayed FB friends but Im looking for an excuse to stop it. We have a son together and I don't think she would send me any info about him if I wasn't on FB. Just waiting for her to meet someone else (if she hasn't already) so I can say I don't think its appropriate and that any communication should be done purely by email (which she hates)

Lots of weird things like you described. I also used to put the chat box up and watch her start a message then stop. She would do this quite a bit but I cant be bothered with that any more so haven't looked in weeks.