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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Detaching and Learning after a Failed Relationship => Topic started by: myself on September 29, 2014, 03:04:08 PM



Title: More Messages/ More Acceptance
Post by: myself on September 29, 2014, 03:04:08 PM
My ex still contacts me sometimes, even though I don't respond.

It's a way for her to relieve her pressure. To try getting me to help her do so.

Wants me to say that I don't hate her. So she can feel let off the hook.

She doesn't say she's sorry, ask how I'm doing, etc. It's all about her.

She's the one who lied, moved out, said goodbye, scapegoated me (still does).

Every time she sends a message, I hear it loud and clear: She's disordered.

Every day that goes by I'm more sure I'm heading in the right direction.

I'm who I am. She's who she is. We can't be together any more.

It must feel like she's a tree that fell down in the forest and no one hears her.