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Title: How long till stage 5 "freedom"... Post by: Harlygirl on October 01, 2014, 10:32:11 AM How long does it take to feel detached... .to the point that I am no longer reacting (negative emotions) when I hear about my exBPDbf and how he has moved on... .Shouldn't I be done with this?
Title: Re: How long till stage 5 "freedom"... Post by: camuse on October 01, 2014, 10:42:55 AM Varies, but as a rule of thumb it normally takes between 50 and 100% the length of the relationship to be totally done.
Title: Re: How long till stage 5 "freedom"... Post by: fred6 on October 01, 2014, 11:18:35 AM Varies, but as a rule of thumb it normally takes between 50 and 100% the length of the relationship to be totally done. I hope to god it doesn't take that long... . Title: Re: How long till stage 5 "freedom"... Post by: blissful_camper on October 01, 2014, 11:45:42 AM Let it run its course. Everyone is different. This month I'm 15 months out. I think I've recently reached the freedom stage, as the loss no longer interferes with my sense of well being. I need to give that concept a few months before I'm convinced that I've reached that stage, though.
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