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Title: To those who broke N/C... Post by: Algae on October 02, 2014, 11:09:55 PM To those who broke N/C and got painted white,
... who was the first to break N/C? You, or your BPDex? Title: Re: To those who broke N/C... Post by: Infern0 on October 02, 2014, 11:25:49 PM The ex broke.
You can't paint yourself white it happens when it happens Title: Re: To those who broke N/C... Post by: bunnysc on October 02, 2014, 11:42:50 PM I broke NC the first time, cause I saw a pic of her and the replacement on a Email I did for her when we where together... .I was pissed and basically sent her to hell by phone... .Totally stupid to do but I couldn't control myself... .Heck I didn't even knew much about BPD.
2 months later she sent me a text saying hi and asking me how the dog we rescued together was doing What the heck? Off course I am taking care of the dog cause she is to busy killing someone else little by little... I stayed NC... . And I will stay NC! Title: Re: To those who broke N/C... Post by: jayboy336 on October 03, 2014, 05:55:02 AM It really all depends. In all of the recycles I had with my exBPDgf, sometimes I broke NC. Sometimes she did. In a way, its almost like a game to them sometimes. To see who will do it first. Who will cave in. If you break NC first, it gives them power and they will use it.
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