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Title: Back to sweetness and light Post by: merlin4926 on October 03, 2014, 12:24:09 PM Sent me horrible texts earlier this week and now is being "sweet and kind" again but not asking for anything from me. I'm finding it very unsettling. In the past he has quickly got to the point of what he needs from me (money, rescuing, sex, shoulder to cry on etc) but this time seemingly nothing.
Why would he contact is it just to keep the hooks in to make his new gf jealous? Title: Re: Back to sweetness and light Post by: merlin4926 on October 03, 2014, 12:24:48 PM Just to add I'm not getting drawn back in just keeping cool and polite
Title: Re: Back to sweetness and light Post by: crookedeuphoria on October 03, 2014, 01:43:16 PM Keep your guard up. After two and half years, I am still caught off guard by the abrupt change from sweet to venomous.
Title: Re: Back to sweetness and light Post by: merlin4926 on October 03, 2014, 02:31:26 PM But what does he want? It's doing my head in
Title: Re: Back to sweetness and light Post by: crookedeuphoria on October 03, 2014, 02:37:41 PM A response. A reaction. Something to know you're still hooked or still grieving. Something to get mad at you about. Maybe he wants to recycle. Maybe he wants to make sure he's still in your head. Maybe he just wants to do your head in. I have no idea why they do the things they do. Every time mine does something that puts me back in the spin of trying to figure him out, I just have to keep reminding myself that it's ALL a mind ___.
Title: Re: Back to sweetness and light Post by: merlin4926 on October 03, 2014, 02:49:31 PM Thanks I guess your right no point messing my head up any further trying to figure out the madness!
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